Don't Confuse Your Auntie with a Tita!

In Hawaii, the word Tita has two very different meanings depending on who you are talking to:

1. The Filipino Meaning (Respect): In Filipino culture, Tita means "Auntie." It is a term of respect used for older female relatives or family friends.

2. The Pidgin Meaning (Attitude): In Hawaiian Pidgin, a Tita (often pronounced Ti-TAH with emphasis on the end) refers to a tough, no-nonsense local woman. A Tita is strong, independent, and not afraid to "scrap" (fight) if necessary. The male equivalent is a Moke.

• Note: While it can be derogatory, many local women wear the label with pride as a symbol of strength.

Etymology Note: The Pidgin term likely evolved as a shortening of "Sistah" (Sister), whereas the Filipino term comes from the Spanish word for Aunt.